For a “friend”:

I don’t think you know how selfish you are. Stop acting so fake around people you just met because you act as if you were always this nice human being although in reality you’re just a self consumed bitch. (Excuse language I’m really mad) You only got better a few years ago because of me let’s be honest.

You need to know that your blessed beyond means… why… do you think that way?…
I think you’ll only truly realize that the people around you were the ones who cared the most when you lose them.
Hopefully you’ll realize not to be so self absorbed because people in this world will move on one day… and all you’ll be is a single dust of memory in their heads. You’ll be nothing of their kind. Stop thinking of how to be more attractive to others or how to be more social because what you truly need to be doing first is loving yourself for who you are.

Your past only exists because you think about it.
Your fears, your frustrations, only exist because you think about them.
Where would they come from if you didn’t think about them,
if you didn’t bring them into play in the present?
Where would they come from?
How would they be there?
You are the cause of all of your problems.
Ponder this.

Robert Adams (via oceanandwave)

(via lunakundalini)


Yesterday, I was too lazy to shower so right before I went to bed i washed my face. And to not get any of my hair wet I tied it up in a small ponytail and put on a headband that I had for years. 

but gUUUUurrrlLLLLLL wow w00w GUurrrlll W0W. for some reason out of all those years of having that headband for the first time ever I took some time to look at the headband more closely.. AND GURLLLLLLLLL there was a crown on the side (which i kind of noticed a long time ago but never really took the care to examine it well) and when I FLIPPED THAT DANG CUTE LITTLE PIECE OF METAL OVER IT SAID “J-ESTINA”

take some time to let that sink in guys (jk who reads this AHAHAH)


AND I KINDA WATCH ALL THEIR CF’S (especially the one with kim soo hyun and kaya scodelario <— which who i think does not match well with my beloved hubby but i guess is pretty decent looking… frack ok she is beautiful) 

AND YEAH SO NOW I HAVE 2 J-ESTINA STUFF SOMEONE HOLLA AT ME (cuz i see no immediate holla i shall give myself a holla: “hollA LLAMA”

<3333333 u dont understand the joy i got by just flipping that dang piece of metal CUZ IT TOTALLY CHANGED MY VIEWS OF THAT HEADBAND AND NOW IT IS IN DELICATE AND CAREFUL HANDS OF MINE. 

*still crying over the magnificence*

(ps to the future me who reads this: yes i am weird and a little to overly happy over a headband)

Wait a second,
Why should you care, what they think of you
When you’re all alone, by yourself, do you like you?
Do you like you?

You don’t have to try so hard
You don’t have to give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don’t have to change a single thing

You don’t have to try so hard
You don’t have to bend until you break
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don’t have to change a single thing

Colbie Caillat, Try